Marriage

Marriage: the cards as text

Fiqh. Draft written with AI help: awaiting scholar review.

  1. Card 1

    It begins as a contract. The Qur'an describes it as love and mercy.

  2. Card 2

    A contract, with consent

    A Muslim marriage begins with a contract: offer and acceptance, witnesses in most schools, and the mahr, a gift to the bride that is hers alone. In the Hanafi school an adult woman's consent is required, and she may contract her own marriage.

  3. Card 3

    Qur'an 4:4

    وَءَاتُواْ ٱلنِّسَآءَ صَدُقَٰتِهِنَّ نِحۡلَةࣱۚ فَإِن طِبۡنَ لَكُمۡ عَن شَيۡءࣲ مِّنۡهُ نَفۡسࣱا فَكُلُوهُ هَنِيٓـࣱٔا مَّرِيٓـࣱٔا ۝٤

    4 Give women their marriage dowries graciously. However, if they waive to you part of it willingly, then enjoy it with a clear conscience.

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    Lesson: In the Hanafi school, there is no marriage without her consent.

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    Love and mercy

    Beyond the contract, the Qur'an calls spouses a source of tranquillity, with love and mercy placed between them, and a garment for each other. The Prophet said the best of people are those best to their families.

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    Qur'an 30:21

    وَمِنۡ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنۡ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنۡ أَنفُسِكُمۡ أَزۡوَٰجࣱا لِّتَسۡكُنُوٓاْ إِلَيۡهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيۡنَكُم مَّوَدَّةࣱ وَرَحۡمَةًۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَأٓيَٰتࣲ لِّقَوۡمࣲ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ۝٢١

    21 And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves that you may find comfort in them, and He placed between you love and mercy. Indeed, there are signs in this for people who reflect.

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    Lesson: The Prophet ﷺ said the best of people are the best to their families.

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    Divorce and more than one wife

    Divorce is allowed: by the husband, or at the wife's request through khul' or a judge. The Qur'an permits up to four wives on condition of justice, and says perfect fairness is impossible. Scholars and Muslim countries differ sharply on it today.

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    Qur'an 4:129

    وَلَن تَسۡتَطِيعُوٓاْ أَن تَعۡدِلُواْ بَيۡنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ وَلَوۡ حَرَصۡتُمۡۖ فَلَا تَمِيلُواْ كُلَّ ٱلۡمَيۡلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَٱلۡمُعَلَّقَةِۚ وَإِن تُصۡلِحُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورࣱا رَّحِيمࣱا ۝١٢٩

    129 You will never be able to maintain absolute justice between your wives, no matter how keen you are. So do not completely incline to one leaving the other in suspense. If you do what is right and fear Allah, Allah is surely All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

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    Lesson: The Qur'an says: if you fear you cannot be just, then only one wife.

  11. Card 11

    Reflect: What does the Hanafi school say about an adult woman's marriage?

    Answer: She may contract her own marriage. She may contract her own marriage, though involving family is encouraged.

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    The end of Marriage.

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