Akhlaq
Neighbours and strangers
The people next door
3 min, Intro
Islam gives neighbours rights of their own, whatever their faith. Care for neighbours, guests, orphans and travellers is counted as part of faith itself. It is not an optional extra.
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The thread
The Prophet said the angel Jibril advised him about the neighbour so often that he thought the neighbour would be made an heir. This lesson follows that circle of care outward from the house next door. To the neighbour of any faith. To the guest. To the orphan and the poor.
Almost an heir
The Prophet ﷺ once described something that kept happening to him. The angel Jibril kept advising him about the neighbour. It happened so often that he thought the neighbour would be made an heir.
The Qur'an puts the neighbour in close company. Alongside parents and relatives, it names the neighbour who is near, the neighbour who is a stranger, the companion at your side, and the traveller.
۞ وَٱعۡبُدُواْ ٱللَّهَ وَلَا تُشۡرِكُواْ بِهِۦ شَيۡـࣱٔاۖ وَبِٱلۡوَٰلِدَيۡنِ إِحۡسَٰنࣱا وَبِذِي ٱلۡقُرۡبَىٰ وَٱلۡيَتَٰمَىٰ وَٱلۡمَسَٰكِينِ وَٱلۡجَارِ ذِي ٱلۡقُرۡبَىٰ وَٱلۡجَارِ ٱلۡجُنُبِ وَٱلصَّاحِبِ بِٱلۡجَنۢبِ وَٱبۡنِ ٱلسَّبِيلِ وَمَا مَلَكَتۡ أَيۡمَٰنُكُمۡۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُحِبُّ مَن كَانَ مُخۡتَالࣱا فَخُورًا ٣٦
36 Worship Allah and do not associate any partners with Him. Be kind to parents, relatives, orphans, the needy, near and distant neighbors, close friends, wayfarers, and slaves whom you own. For Allah does not like those who are arrogant, boastful,
Jibril kept advising me about the neighbour until I thought he would make him an heir.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6014, Sahih Muslim 2624 Sahih In Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim
The Qur'an names the neighbour, near or stranger, alongside parents and relatives.
Belief, measured next door
Where does belief show? The Prophet ﷺ pointed to the people closest to hand.
He said: whoever believes in God and the Last Day, let them honour their neighbour; let them honour their guest; and let them say something good or keep quiet.
Scholars note the word used is simply "neighbour". It covers Muslim and non-Muslim alike.
Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent; and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him honour his neighbour.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6018, Sahih Muslim 47 Sahih In Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim
In this hadith, belief shows in how a person treats the neighbour and the guest, and in how they speak.
The one who pushes the orphan away
The Prophet ﷺ was himself an orphan. And the Qur'an returns to orphans often.
One short surah, al-Ma'un, opens with a question: have you seen the one who denies the Judgment? Then it answers. It is the one who pushes away the orphan, and does not encourage feeding the poor.
In this view, belief that never reaches the vulnerable is hollow.
أَرَءَيۡتَ ٱلَّذِي يُكَذِّبُ بِٱلدِّينِ ١ فَذَٰلِكَ ٱلَّذِي يَدُعُّ ٱلۡيَتِيمَ ٢ وَلَا يَحُضُّ عَلَىٰ طَعَامِ ٱلۡمِسۡكِينِ ٣
1 Have you seen the one who denies the Recompense? 2 Such is the one who repulses the orphan harshly, 3 and does not urge others to feed the needy.
In surah al-Ma'un, belief that never reaches the orphan and the poor is hollow.